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Prejudice Against Fat People Still Common -- Tyra Banks Excluded

Americans are getting steadily heavier, yet conversely the image of the ideal body shape is getting steadily thinner. Prejudice against fat people prevails and getting worse. Tyra Banks causes a stir, but she could never be categorized as overweight. Is the media the blame?

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Americans are getting steadily heavier, yet conversely the image of the ideal body shape is getting steadily thinner. This widening chasm is causing societal friction and a hardening prejudice, not toward a minority, but paradoxically toward a growing majority.

This month, supermodel Tyra Banks hit back at the media for ridiculing her "heavier figure". Banks, who purportedly is 5"10 and weighs 161 lbs, infamously told the media to "Kiss my fat ass." But, the problem is she recently modeled a bikini, in which she appeared thin and sexy. This flew in the face of her attempts to be a spokesperson for overweight women.

"The people that were staring and laughing in my face shocked me the most."
    Tyra Banks, Supermodel (when she wore a fat suit)

Tyra Banks
Svelt supermodel Tyra Banks (above left) donned a special fat costume (above right) to make her appear to be 350 lbs. in weight . Which would you discriminate against?
It was back in the fall of 2005 that Banks, the cover girl for Cosmopolitan, Elle, Vogue, GQ, and Bazaar, wore a special fat costume that made her appear to weigh 350 pounds. It was quite a shock for the svelte supermodel, accustomed to turning heads, to suddenly experienced prejudice for being fat. This supposedly started her on her crusade to fight fat prejudice.

"The people that were staring and laughing in my face shocked me the most." Banks said, "There's no excuse for rudeness. There's no excuse for ugliness. And there's no excuse for nastiness and that's what I experienced. " This started her on her path to be less concerned with being ultra thin.

Putting the paradox of a supermodel representing fat people aside, it appears our society is still hung up on "thin is beautiful". Most recently, actor Eddie Murphy make deep cutting jokes about fat women in his new comedy "Norbit", where like Tyra Banks, he wears the costume of a super-obese woman -- comedy at the expense of fat people.
The U.S. is demonstrably prejudiced toward fat people. "Fatphobia", "weightism" and "sizeism" are all terms which have been used to describe the pervasive cultural prejudice in our society which unfairly discriminates against people of size.

But the most misery and unhappiness in being overweight, is not the health threat, per se, but the negative attitudes and prejudices. Such attitudes cause overweight people to hate themselves, to develop eating disorders, and to injure their body through yo-yo dieting practices.

Fat prejudice causes people to be discriminated against in the employment sector, to be denied health insurance coverage and to be constantly judged by those around them: family members, peers, and perfect strangers on the street.

TV Sets The Example

Our attitudes are heavily influenced by the media. And the media hates fat people.

According to research at Michigan State University, overweight characters on screen are less likely to date, unlikely to have sex and very likely to be the butt of bad jokes. Plus, they are rarely portrayed in leadership roles and often appear to have no friends of either sex.

"The last socially acceptable prejudice is against fat people," said Bradley Greenberg, MSU's professor of communication and telecommunication.

His research inventoried body shapes, then compared the findings with the physique of the average person on the street, as measured by the National Institutes of Health.

"The female differences were staggering," Greenberg said. Only one in 300 female characters is obese. In real life, one in 4 women is either overweight or obese. Reality TV is no help, 9 out of 10 women on these shows are thin. "Out here in the real world, only 5 out of 10 can make that claim".

Other findings of the study included:

  • On screen large women had 1/3 fewer romantic interactions than women who were thin; large men had ½ as many.
  • Larger men were twice as likely to be seen feeding their faces than were men of average or less weight.
  • Fewer than 15% of the chubby male characters were judged to be charming or smart, compared to 25% of the average or skinny male characters.

An Association To Fight Against Fat Discrimination

Most of us don't realize it, but there is actually an organization to fight discrimination against fat people. It's called the National Association To Advance Fat Acceptance (NAAFA).

Its mission is to work towards providing equal opportunity for fat people wherever obstacles and/or discrimination exist and to serve as a forum where issues affecting fat people can be discussed in an unbiased setting. www.naafa.org.


Posted 02/16/2007

Source: FitCommerce.com


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by Francesco
same person
Until I was 33 years old, I weighed 130 lbs. I was on top of the world, and I took it for granted. I could have anything and anyone I wanted. I didn't realize how good I had it until I gained weight, which happened very quickly. I now weight 212 lbs. I recently met up with an old friend from high school who was going to spend the night. When we met face to face, he mentioned how big I was, and said he would get a hotel instead. Another old "friend" sneered at me recently and yeled out, "Look how those stairs bend beneath the queen's feet!" I body-lunged him. Take that. Another said I look like a snake that swallowed a buck. even old friends can be unkind, rude, and mean for no reason. It has helped me sort out those with true character. don't get me wrong, the friends that remain still see me as overweight, but that I am a person too. As I lose weight, these are the friends to keep. And I won't fal back on my word.
by Baboomba Bleu
Chronically Fat
I'm sure I could come up with a dozen reasons of should I say "excuses" why I am like I am. Such as: I've had 8 kids/been pregnant 17 times; My metabolism has slowed down drastically; I started being unable to lose weight by using illegal substances when I was 34; I've been this way for so long my body doesn't know anything else. But when it really comes down to it, I guess it is because I really haven't put enuf effort or focus on actually doing something to change the way I look. I guess that over the years I became so used to the way I looked, even though every time I looked at my body in the mirror, all I could think about was changing it. But apparently I didnt have the gumption to do it. And so I go on. And whenever I recognize some change like my upper arms have become way more wobbly and now look totally like an old lady. (nothing against old ladies), One of my concerns is that even if I somehow was able to lose considerable fattage, what about the stretched out for umteen yrs flesh left behind? I'm pretty positive that its not gonna get "toned up" with exercise. It is gonna have to be pulled out and cut off otherwise it's just gonna hang down and flop around like bread dough. So I'm f#*%d no matter what. I have low self esteem, am very critical of my overall looks, have to put deodorant underneath my flop of a stomach so it doesnt stink if I sweat, won't wear sleeveless shirts in public, won't wear shorts, tend not to believe my boyfriend whenever he whistles at me or looks at my butt appreciatively, refuse to wear a swimsuit so now I don't even go near larger bodies of water (harpoon hunters are EVERYWHERE), except for current partner, don't take my clothes off for sex, am too self conscious, won't walk away normally if my butt shows, I will walk sideways or backwards, etc etc etc. It never ends. Most guys are accepting of my fat at least outwardly. But who really knows what's actually going on in their heads. But every now and then, I have some acceptance of my self. I think that I don't look so bad. But in reality, I feel that because of so much negativity put out there by the media and public at large, my perception of being fat has become extremely warped. I feel less than, ugly. Being fat is WAY more than a weight issue. It effects everything in your life. I remember something a guy said to me once that still messes with my head. He had made breakfast and put numerous pieces of bacon on my plate. I told him that I usually don't eat bacon. He said that he figured because of my big back arms that I must eat that kind of food all the time. Until the overall negative public opinion about being fat, overweight, pleasantly plump, whatever, changes for the better, people like myself will continue to feel ugly and not good enough. It sucks.
by YepYep
Addict Language
On a side note, I have to say that the language I hear from numerous overweight individuals about their obesity strongly reflects language from other addicts. "I'm fine. Everyone else is the one with the problem." "I'm just enjoying my life." "I might drink alcohol/eat a lot sometimes, but I definitely don't do it more than the average person. I drink alcohol/eat the same as everyone else. I don't have a problem or anything." "I am just genetically prone to being overweight / Alcoholism runs in my family. I inherited/learned it from my parents." "What am I supposed to do? NOT smoke/eat when I get anxious/hungry? Am I supposed to be miserable like that?" "I'm BETTER when I'm drunk. I'm way more FUN than those women who just go around acting like "nuns." / I'm BETTER than those thin women. They just look like bones and are clearly just anorexic anyway." "You're all just ganging up on me / You don't know me / YOU try dealing with this problem." "You don't know what I'm going through." For one instance, as one person here displayed, a lot of overweight people complain that the reason they're overweight is because they're genetically prone to being hungry all the time, which is why they're fat. But being hungry all the time is the RESULT of being obese (or a food addict), and not the other way around. It's like a nicotine addict saying that he gets anxious if he doesn't have a smoke, and so he HAS to smoke. It's the addiction to cigarettes that causes the anxiety you feel when you don't have a cigarette, and not the other way around. The addiction causes you to feel the need for nicotine (and also causes the horrible cravings / withdrawals you get if you don't have it). It's the same with food addictions. People who are food addicts feel like they're "starving themselves" if they go on a diet (even though that's not actually true of course), because the cravings/withdrawals they go through for food truly do make them feel hungry and starving all the time (although again, this is caused by the addiction itself and not the other way around). Of course, if you weigh 300 pounds, then you are most definitely not "starving" if you go on a diet. Your body has more than enough to actually survive. But your addiction makes you FEEL as if you really are starving all the time.
by YepYep
.....What?
Goldwave: What you're describing is scientifically impossible. Weight gain is caused by caloric intake. There is no way you could "eat less than a thin person every day and still be obese." My aunt is significantly overweight, and she used to complain that she only ate about 1 meal a day and was still fat, until I saw that what she counted as one meal was a Carls Jr. burger, fries with ranch dressing, and a coke, which might look like a small meal, but totals over 2,000 calories. Way over what a female of her height should eat. I see this a lot with other overweight individuals who claim that they eat "the same as thin people." They may in fact not eat huge portions of food, but what they do eat is much higher in calories than perhaps they realize (salads with ranch dressing, chips and salsa, alcohol, soda, lattes, etc.). Also, your stance that "genetics causes obesity" wouldn't explain why the obesity epidemic happened across an entire generation of people in a relatively short amount of time, and primarily in the U.S. The U.S. population was not obese until just just a few generation ago. If it was caused by the genetics that we share with our great grandparents, then they would have all been fat, too. Genetics doesn't suddenly "change" across an entire population of people in one country and all at one time. Also, a large amount of individuals are new to the U.S. from countries that have low obesity rates, and yet these immigrants experience the same U.S. rates of obesity in their children that are born here. Lastly, while genetics could cause someone to have a low metabolism, genetics does not cause caloric intake. And even extremely low metabolisms and hypothyroid disorders, while they can cause a person to add on a little weight, still wouldn't cause someone to weigh 300 pounds. MrOpinion: I disagree with the argument that this is the same as "racism against African Americans in the 60s." Black Americans didn't make choices that led them to become Black. Prejudices experienced by overweight individuals are more similar to the prejudices that drug and alcohol addicts face. People make fun of addicts (drug, alcohol, AND food addicts) because they feel that their situation was caused by choices they made. However, even if this is true, once someone is a food addict (or an addict of any kind) it is incredibly difficult for them to just "suddenly stop." An overweight person can't suddenly become thin any more than an alcoholic can suddenly stop drinking. They need support and understanding to overcome their addictions. However, like most addicts, food addicts can display a lot of justifications and denial about their conditions, including about the dangers of their conditions. Therefore, I think groups that "fight for overweight rights" are a little like groups that fight for "alcoholics' rights." They mean well, but their perpetuating such justifications and denials could actually cause more harm. However, I agree that people should not vilify or judge overweight people. Like other addicts, it is too easy for people to be cruel to them and to judge them for their problems, when instead they need sympathy and support. Making fun of an alcoholic doesn't cause them to become sober any more than making fun of a food addict makes them thin. :-(
by MrOpinion
Really?
@Anonymous Review Title: Former overweight person Really? 196. give me a break that's bearly even chubby for your height. don't sit there and pretend your life is all hunky dory and you worked your ass off and lost a lot of weight. lets get something straight here. for someone who is obese its much more intended work. Losing 200 pounds as to appose to 20-40 pounds is much harder to do. This isn't an excuse by any means. Back in the 60's white people were saying the same thing about black people. Stop making excuses. you just need to get a job and you'll have nice things. yet everything was segregated and the good stuff went to whites and shit went to black people. in this metaphor you are the white people and the "real" overweight people are the black people. Shut your whole wang chung and don't speak any more about shit you clearly have no clue about.
by Wian Van Zyl.
Mr.
Hi my name is wian van zyl. Im from the city neslpruit its the province mpumalanga in South Afica. I am an over waight white male and im gay. I face prejudice evry single day. People always looking at me as they walk past me in the streets. Sometimes they giggle sometimes they they say the most horrible things behind ur beck. Im sick and tired of this. I want a law protecting us fat people from prejudice wee need that and im so ashamed of the goverments all around the word who has the power to stop this but dosnt. Being fat dose not define u thats what world needs to understand well maybe going to jail for saying "u fatass" is exactly what this world needs. Please! Somebody out there who is reading this help me to fight for our right to get t respectwe deserve. Im wian van zyl. U can call me at +27794162723. Thank you.and remember love speeks way louder then hate.
by Goldwave
Not That Simple
I suspect that the posted review by "Former overweight person" is a fake. Why? Because in my experience, fat people do NOT eat more than others, and oftentimes they are MORE active than other people as well. Me? I have to literally starve myself permanently in order to maintain a thin physique. As it is, I'm obese and I eat typically 1 meal a day, and that is, from what I can observe, a smaller meal than other people consume. I do like sweets but again, from observation I can clearly see that I'm not exceeding (or even approaching) what a lot of thin people are consuming on a daily basis. I have worked in the biotech sector and have become convinced that genetics plays a major role in many aspects of human physical and psychological design. I suspect that we are going to discover that fat people are that way due to a genetic "favor" (in the not too distant past, the ability to hold weight on little food would have been a great survival benefit). I also think that's why there are so many fat people - because it proffered a genetic survival advantage during historical periods where famine was common, or just low levels of food availability all the time were the norm. Beyond all of that, I am really offended by those people who I help, who receive and ask for my help, who then show me discourtesy and scorn because I'm fat. Most of those people are no great shakes in the looks or personality departments in other ways and it amazes me just how conceited so many people are when they have no real basis to be so. Food for thought for those who judge fat people.
by Anonymous
Former overweight person
I'm 5'4 and weighed 196 pounds 2 years ago. When I was fat, I was depressed, I didn't care about my eating, I was lazy, slow, and sick. Jane said..."Sadly, if it was simply a matter of dieting and losing weight we would all be slim and beautiful" It actually WAS a matter of just dieting and losing weight for me. I was sick of being fat, unattractive and lazy. I stopped eating like a pig and started eating organic, started RESPECTING my body, going to the gym 5 times a week. I could barely walk 1 mile and wanted to be able to run. I started out by running 30 seconds, then 1 minute, then 2 and so on and so forth. Now, because of my DISCIPLINE and HARD WORK (no meds, no diet pills, no trainers) I weigh 145lbs. I went from size 14 to a size 8. Some fat people ARE fat because they are gluttunous and lazy. I know I was. Sometimes all we need is a little INNER STRENGTH, DESIRE, and MOTIVATION- it works!!!!!! Stop making excuses and DO WORK!!!!!!
by A Dove
Additional Note
I consider myself overweight for my height at 140...I should really be 120-125 or so...to feel the best in my skin.......and for the record, I have worked with heavier set (fat) women who have worked as hard or harder at the jobs we worked at...I never saw them as fat, because there wasn't any issues regarding there weight or mine....It was work and play....so, all this prejudice talk may be partly due to people feeling threatened by some outside source whether it be the fat towards the thin or the thin towards the fat....Lets find out what the real issues are...are you hating yourself, your life, your job, other people, have you gotten laid lately? all these are valid issues that could cause people to be so quick to make another person's life be misearble...and duh...like who gives anyone that right, no matter who and where they are...
by Ariel Dove
I Beg To Differ
Although I am sure there are many over weight people who feel they are unfairly being judged and ridiculed. But there are plenty and I mean plenty of very fat overweight women who are out right nasty to someone who is in shape. There's a strong prejudice that the thinner, more attractive woman gets it easier and they (the fat ones) feel it's their right or place to make a thin persons life more miserable, be more rude and overall justy plain nasty for no reason at all, or so it appears. So, my experience as a small framed 5'6" 140lbs woman is that I work hard at all the jobs I've ever held. I go out of my way to make sure the customers are happy and cared for. It would appear that I am trying to make a fatter co worker appear to be doing an inferior job, just because I am ready to do mine. This causes the fatter co-worker to lash out. Of course, if the fatter person has more seniority, the feeling of the fatter person is one that they don't need to serve the customers with the same care, but let the skinny person do all the work, while the fat ones stand around and b.s. ....So, putting on a fat suit is not enough. You need to add all the elements of the fat person feeling resentful, feeling that the skinny person outshines them in doing the same job, so revenge and nastiness is in order. It's a common phenomenom, because they get away with it by pushing their fat around and having forked tongues around the bosses.....you know...anybody's job is replacable....no one should act like they're too good for the work they've been hired to do. and if they are acting as or wanting to be a manager, their example is the most important. So, when all the small skinny's are busting their humps to serve the customer's.....when the phone rings, instead of standing and talking it up with the other fattiess thnking they're above it all...just answer the frikkin phone so the others can continue doing their work...and try anc continue to be a customer service rep yourself, otherwise who gives a shit about what you say. you are nothing but a fat lazy ass in my mind and haven't proven yourself as anything more....so there are many sides...this is one of them... I have been attacked for being thin and I say eat a salad and live in my shoes before you know what I've had to go through to remain in "shape"....try working harder and the respect will be there a lot easier and will have nothing to do with size, but because you're with the team and pulling your own weight...
by Brad
It's the double-standard
The problem is the double-standard, i.e. nobody considers sizeism in the same league as racism, anti-semitism etc. If a person is ridculed for their size, then it's just considered "rude" at worst-- there's never anywhere near the same public repurcussions as if they were attacked for their race, religion etc.; in short, there's simply nowhere near the same level of protection. Laws like "ethnic intimidation" or "holocaust denial" exist, but no such laws exist against sizeism, and likewise there's an unspoken license and sanction to attack people for their size. Anyone who's grown up with a size-issue knows that there's no difference, as they are often driven to eating disorders like anorexia or bulemia and other conditions due to being terrorized continually and without mercy-- and told that it's their own fault for their presumed sloth and gluttony. And the fact that size is not treated with the same social stigma as racism, demonstrates the double-standard and sizeism which still exists in our society. 100 years ago, it was fashionable in Western society to hate non-whites, Jews etc., but now it's widely condemned-- while sizeism is still a popular and safe prejudice. Such double-standard are often defended with lengthy arguments, however-- the first of which, obviously, is that it's the person should just "lose weight--" i.e. the presumption that it's their own fault for being a lazy glutton, and often every other slur against them-- thus giving credence to the notion that their size is a blight on society, and so there's a public license to hate them like some sort of public enemy; no one will ever condemn this prejudice, let alone have the bigot arrested for it. But if they engage in the same behavior against someone's race, then they'll typically be publicly chastized and stigmatized-- just look at Michael Richards when he engaged in racist comments, or Marlon Brando when for anti-semitic ones; if they had ridiculed someone's size, then it would have been a joke. This social hypocrisy shows that sizeism exists as a basic value in society, and it needs to be addessed and exposed.
by Concerned daughter
Worried about Mom's health
The above article says that obese/ overweight people are discriminated against even by family members. Am I a good daughter if I stand by and watch my mother eat herself to death? My mom's cardiologist doctor clearly told her and me that she has to make dietary changes in order to stay alive. My Mom and I live in the same household. She is 83 years old and can hardly walk. She is a very short woman and wears huge plus size clothes. Trying to get her to eat portions sizes and the kinds of foods she needs to eat is causing her to become angry with me and other family members. We have even gone so far as to be on her diet with her and not bring tempting foods into the house. I cook without salt because she has high blood pressure but I catch her sneaking salt food into her food because it tastes better to her. I have pretty low blood pressure and do not need to be limiting my salt but not so low that I would be in any danger unless it was really hot(when of course I would take salt). I am now underweight from HER diet and she resents my going out to eat a meal with my husband. She claims I am being rude if I eat anything without offering her some. Even if she just ate a large meal by herself or it is something salty that she shouldn't eat. I just don't want her to die. I care about her and all she seems to care about is food. If I buy normal amounts of food she eats it all. If I start to buy in bulk, I will be the cause of her over eating, I think. She demands that we create a home environment where overeating is the norm and where it can take place for her inconspicuously. In the past her weight problems did not affect anything but her own appearance but now it is life and death. How can I be an enabler and live with myself? It is so sad. What do I do?
by Jane from Surrey, England
Pride and Prejudice
Mekany, perhaps we should be prejudice against you for your obvious lack of ability to spell properly and your inability to string a grammatically correct sentence together. Check your keyboard for the 'caps lock' key. Simone,you are obviously not fat but, on the other hand, you are obviously very stupid, uneducated and lacking in any compassion. Yes, of course fat people are aware that they eat too much! Despite popular belief, we are fat not stupid. It is a fact that most fat people also know and are appalled by their lack of ability to control their overeating. Sadly, if it was simply a matter of dieting and losing weight we would all be slim and beautiful and then sanctimonious, stupid, insecure people like Mekany and Simone would have to look around for another group of people to ridicule. Everyone without exception has a weakness ie smoking, drugs, gambling, drinking etc etc - the list is endless. However, while these people are quite rightly so seen as needing our help, fat people are condemned and publicly ridiculed, particularly in the media. Unfortunately, prejudice is a constant companion in the life of an obese person. I would say to anyone who is overweight have pride and hold you head up high. After all, these sanctimonious people who give you dirty looks do, despite what they might want you to think, have their own problems and habits to deal with and instead of dealing with them are sadly just trying to make themselves feel a little bit better by sneering at someone else. How sad is that?
by SK
Love yourself; no matter what size you are.
I believe nobody should be discriminated against. But seriously, society is always going to discriminate against overweight people AND underweight people. Both of the groups get discriminated against no matter what. Don't judge somebody by their body type; it's just plain rude. One problem that is ignored though are the naturally thin people out there. People call them anorexic meanwhile they live healthy lives and eat normally like everyone else. Just because the media pressures everyone to be skinny, doesn't mean that every person out there in real life is anorexic just because they are naturally thin. I also don't believe the whole BS about "Real women have curves." Thats bull. Every women is different and in size. The quote is meant to put down thin people for all the wrong reasons. Thin women are REAL too. So stop discriminating against all groups, stop judging, and most importantly; love yourself.
by Mrs. Hinton
You may be thin, but get over yourself....
It bothers me to see some many of you thin people commenting about overweight individuals. Who are you to judge. There are a lot of overweight people in this world, and it is people like you that make it hard for overweight people like myself. I weigh 285lbs, I wasn't always this way, birth control made me gain weight. But there are individuals who are very sick, and there are those that are overweight simply because they like to eat. Either way, it is still not your place to judge us. Today's society ought to be ashamed for teaching everyone that you have to be skinny to be beautiful. Just think, one day you may have a kid that is overweight, and once you see how they are constantly ridiculed, you will all feel like complete donkeys. Remember, God don't like ugly and 90% of you skinny people are some ugly MF's
by Ronny
Obese people in the workplace
I do believe their is some discrimination of Obese people. My mother was obese and she got gastric bypass surgery because me and my brother were embarrassed of her size. Now, I work at a nursing home, and if we have a new caregiver come in and she/he is big and out of shape. I get upset. I've had multiple coworkers who cannot pull their weight. I have to bust my butt, and help with their residents about 5 times more then a healthy person.they also quit, because the work takes a toll on your body. I can't help but think their is some logic in not hiring a heavier person.
by aynonomys
aynonomys
oh and what would you do if you were hungary all the time. sit around and do nothing and let the hunger eat up your life? no i dont think so.
by aynonomys
aynonomys
I think anyone who thinks fat people have no self controll or they are stipid are dumb. most overweight people have a genetic problem with being always hungary. I know because I am one of them. I have a problem being always hungary and i dont sit around all the time watching tv and eat jumk food. I just usually eat too much.
by Simone de Beauvoir
How about health?
Overweight/obese people are ultimately unhealthy physically (high blood pressure, diabetes, etc) but also psychologically: lack of self control, using food as comfort, fooling themselves in saying and thinking that "they are sick", that it's not their fault etc etc... They are overweight /obese because of their lack of ability to control their eating habits and their emotional ups and downs and their gluttony. There is absolutely NO reason to feel sorry for them, they do that to themselves (just look into their shopping cart in the Supermarket) and they ruin their health in the process. It is THEIR choice so they should live with the consequences.
by Lisa
15% Less charming or Intelligent?!
It is suprizing to me that less than 15% of overweight male characters in the media were judged as being charming and smart compared to their average sized counterparts. I myself am a woman with a thin and athletic figure being that I am a gymnastics coach. However my husband is nearly double my size, and always has been. We have an incredible marriage. It is his charm and intellect primarily which made me fall so in love with him to begin with! This epidemic of obesity in America concerns me because of the many health issues it imposes on society, however the prejudice experienced by people of size is unacceptable and uncalled for in most cases. I see the difficulties my husband faces on a day to day basis, and he is very good about quietly accomodating himself in a world made for the thinner population. But at some point it just isn't fair. Nobody deserves to be judged.
by thickchick
excuse me
fat people do not have a problem. people should not dicriminate against chubby people. and foormyour info some people are fat because they have a problem and its not cuz they want to be fat its because a sickness that they have. and some people like the way they are and us big people dont need discrimination from you because no one is perfect not even you
by Drake
Justice
I have to say that i feel for people with obesity. I think that societies view on obese people hurts us as a culture. Im sorry but if you're looking at others and "Cringing" due to the fact they may be over weight, you have SERIOUS ISSUES! I am very shocked with MEKANY's view on this. It's very rude, and selfish. You know MEKANY YOU HAVE ISSUES AND YOU NEED HELP! YOU'RE THE REASON WE HAVE SO MANY PROBLEMS IN SOCIETY!! Your outlook on people is horrendous. It's a true issue of the heart, and i think that if you're thinking with the view mekany has, then you need to look in the mirror and seriously check yourself! I pray for people like you mekany, that maybe one of these days your type will change!
by mekany
whatever
fat people are disgusting. THEY NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT. they need to stop eating themselves stupid. then they get all upset when people discriminate, well hello, look at you. as if we're going to want to be nice to somebody who looks like a pig. i dont think. everything everyone has said here is crap- you probably all look at fat people in the street and cringe. dont give me that crap about "i dont discriminate" because i know you do. so stop lying and pretending these fattys are welcome in society. you should be telling them to get off their butts, not how much we love them. a word of advice: your fat and its your own fault. get off your butt and do something fatty.
by shamsie
feelings inside?
i myself weigh 110 pounds, i think i am actually too skinny and un-healthy becauswe of my weight because i am TOO skinny. why is it that people think they have to be a stick figure to be beautiful? all of my best friends are over-weight, and are the most kind funniest people i know. what ever happened to the beauty on the inside? isnt that all that matters? how can people make fun of those who are over-weight? that is un-godly and wrong, and alot of this is just mental crap goin through our minds. for instance, some people my be over-weight because of the publics constant discrimination of them!! i meen come one! you cant say that that isnt depressing? and for those of you who think your "the best" just cause you have a "healthy" fit body and force youself to barf everyday, thats not right to call someone who is different from you worthless! who cares what is in style? who cares about people that look different or that like to look different? all that matters is what is on the inside, and trust me folks, that is all that matters!! me thinking like this has gotten me far in life and has made me a kind nice person. no, im not "popular", no, i dont date jocs, i never have and i never will. i dont like being around any kind of mean or rudeness towards people who cant help the way they look, that is the reason why i feel happy in life. therefore, if everybody {including the media, models, etc.,} can just except the way they look and other people look the world would be such a better place, and there will be peace. think about it, if people continue discriminating the over-weight, all that would do is cause more enemies and hatred in the world, and lord knows we dont need anymore of that! so my question to the world is, why cant we all be friends? -shamsie
by Sasha
Fat?
There is nothing wrong with being fat! I admit i am not overwieght but many of my friends are asnd they are the loveliest people i have ever met! Anyone who is prejudiced against the large people of the world are just stupid.
by Ashley J
Being Fit is more important than your body shape
I can't believe the world is still so obsessed with their body shape and weight or should i say obessed with other's body shape and weight. To me the only thing imporant is being fit and feeling fit from inside. I don't care if I am thin or gain weight as long as I feel good about myself. I do my regular exercises and eat what I like and make sure I never overdo anything. I hope all those women who feel bad about themselves because they feel the world thinks of them as fat or ugly would just stop thinking about what others are saying and start feeling good about themselves. You just need to take care of your own health and thats it. Worrying about other people's views will is extremely dangerous as then there is no chance of ever being happy. Ashley J www.bootcampbuilder.com
by PJayY
People are just self concious them selves
I believe that poeple who look down on other people are just doing it because they are self concious about them seleves. I reckon most skinny chicks try and put the limelight on fat girls being ugly, because they don't want to see them as the ugly one...when actualy they are just jeouse. People in this world should just face reality, and stop judging peo;ple on their appearance because we are all different, if we were all the same wouldnt the world be boring??? so to all those peopl out there that tease and ciscriminate against fat chicks...look at urself in the mirror and see hu da real ugly person is...its wat is the inside that counts...
by Antonia
Day and night
Having been involved in a life long battle with my weight, I know first hand how overweight people are treated. When I was very thin, people were kind, interested, friendly, and respectful. Now that I'm heavier, I'm invisible. People look through me. It's sad, but that's about how deep most people are. They don't look past the appearance.
by Meghan
Just the way it is
I can recall seeing a TV show, 60 Diane Sawyer or something like that, where the reported dressed up ugly and dropped her shopping bags on a busy pedestrian street downtown. All the men just walked right by her. Then she dressed up beautiful, and also dropped her shopping bags at the same location, the guys were practically stepping over themselves to help her. There is no excuse for prejudice o
by Sarah
Fat is not Phat
I currently work at a bakery. I often recieve complaints that the food at the bakery is too fattening. Well, some people in this world eat low fat yogurt and fruit. But these people come in and buy caramel rolls, cream cheese danishes, and ask for half and half with their pastries instead of regular 2% milk. Well, I just don't see how these people can expect to be treated with respect when the
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